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It's Not That Young People Don't Want Children. It's That They Can't Afford Having Children.
My nail artist moved away because child care in the city was too expensive, and now I drive an hour each month just to see her. She’s not alone—young families are leaving major cities as the cost of living makes raising kids nearly impossible. Cities need to invest in families if they want to stay vibrant.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 203 min read


To My 8-Year-Old in Therapy: It's Okay to Feel Worried
A mother's message to her 8-year-old swimmer undergoing therapy: I know things feel hard right now, and that’s okay. Everyone feels worried sometimes. You don’t have to be perfect — you just need to try your best. If something feels too big, you can always ask for help. Papa and I love you no matter what — not because you win medals, but because you’re YOU.

To-wen Tseng
Nov 19, 20253 min read


When Phones are Banned, Books Make a Comeback
What a Kentucky experiment taught me about kids, screens, and rediscovering the joy of reading.

To-wen Tseng
Oct 21, 20252 min read


Let's Not Outsource Parenting Duty to Artificial Intelligence
A toy company announced that it will develop AI-powered toys for babies, but studies have shown that such toys is vulnerable to leaking children's personal information and may interfere with their social, emotional, and cognitive development in many ways. Our precious children need rich, human interaction—not to be raised by AI-powered nannies.

To-wen Tseng
Jul 17, 20253 min read


When An “AI Companion” Encourages Your Kids to Run Away
There are two types of artificial intelligence: generative and companion. Based on testing, companion AI can compete with users' real-life friends, encourage them to run away from home, and even suggest self-harm—posing a serious risk to children under the age of 18.

To-wen Tseng
May 30, 20253 min read


Instead of a "Baby Bonus," This is What the White House Should Do to Encourage Women to Have More Children
The Trump administration wants to persuade women to have more children by awarding $5,000 for every birth. But women say they want universal healthcare and affordable childcare.

To-wen Tseng
May 15, 20252 min read


Embracing the Joys of Solitude in the New Year
Popular culture often portrays being alone as negative, but loneliness is normal, and everyone should learn to embrace solitude.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 21, 20253 min read


Ending Intergenerational Trauma With Me
Little J entered the "freaking fours," determined to test every limit I had. After one meltdown, I made a mistake...

To-wen Tseng
Oct 14, 20244 min read


We Need to Talk to Our Sons About Care Responsibilities
As back-to-school season waning and election season approaching, To-wen writes why parents need talk to their boys about care.

To-wen Tseng
Sep 16, 20242 min read


To My Preschool Graduate, I Won't Say "I Just Want You To Be Happy"
I don't expect you to be happy all the time. I hope you embrace your true self, feel all your emotions, and keep trying even when you fail.

To-wen Tseng
Jun 19, 20223 min read


Born and Raised in Taiwan, I Actually Appreciate How Americans Judge Parents
When my four-year-old had a meltdown and the police showed up at my door, I didn’t feel ashamed—I felt safe. Born and raised in Taiwan, I knew what it was like to cry for help and have no one come. But in America, someone knocked. That night reminded me why I appreciate how American society isn’t afraid to judge parents—and how that judgment can protect children.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 24, 20194 min read
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