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This Blog is Now a Book!
Sometimes, you need to leave home to find yourself. For some people, childhood is a source of happiness. But for others, it is a black...

To-wen Tseng
Apr 29, 20254 min read


Ending Intergenerational Trauma With Me
Little J entered the "freaking fours," determined to test every limit I had. After one meltdown, I made a mistake...

To-wen Tseng
Oct 14, 20244 min read


The Invisible Wounds and The Parents Who Cannot Face Their Own Children
"My left leg is a bit awkward. It was broken by my mom when I was a child." I have been writing about family relationship for five years....

To-wen Tseng
Jul 8, 20245 min read


My Mama's Zongzi
People usually think of their moms on Mother's Day. But I only think of my mom on Dragon Boat Festival. My mom is a very strict, very...

To-wen Tseng
Jun 3, 20244 min read


In the End, I Gave Up On Going "Home"
Family estrangement is painful, stemming from long-term issues--not one fight. Be mindful of what you say to those who've made this choice.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 31, 20244 min read


Three More Years Passed, but I'm Still On My Way Home
With the journey of trauma, resilience, and attempts to reconcile with estranged parents, I wish to offer hope to those seeking healing.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 7, 20205 min read


Born and Raised in Taiwan, I Actually Appreciate How Americans Judge Parents
When my four-year-old had a meltdown and the police showed up at my door, I didn’t feel ashamed—I felt safe. Born and raised in Taiwan, I knew what it was like to cry for help and have no one come. But in America, someone knocked. That night reminded me why I appreciate how American society isn’t afraid to judge parents—and how that judgment can protect children.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 24, 20194 min read


It Took Me Thirteen Years To Go Home
After 13 years away, I returned home for Lunar New Year with my child, seeking reconciliation with my parents and healing old wounds.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 31, 20174 min read
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