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This Blog is Now a Book!
Sometimes, you need to leave home to find yourself. For some people, childhood is a source of happiness. But for others, it is a black...

To-wen Tseng
Apr 294 min read
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Ending Intergenerational Trauma With Me
Little J entered the "freaking fours," determined to test every limit I had. After one meltdown, I made a mistake...

To-wen Tseng
Oct 14, 20244 min read
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The Invisible Wounds and The Parents Who Cannot Face Their Own Children
"My left leg is a bit awkward. It was broken by my mom when I was a child." I have been writing about family relationship for five years....

To-wen Tseng
Jul 8, 20245 min read
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My Mama's Zongzi
People usually think of their moms on Mother's Day. But I only think of my mom on Dragon Boat Festival. My mom is a very strict, very...

To-wen Tseng
Jun 3, 20244 min read
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In the End, I Gave Up On Going "Home"
Family estrangement is painful, stemming from long-term issues--not one fight. Be mindful of what you say to those who've made this choice.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 31, 20244 min read
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Three More Years Passed, but I'm Still On My Way Home
With the journey of trauma, resilience, and attempts to reconcile with estranged parents, I wish to offer hope to those seeking healing.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 7, 20205 min read
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Born and Raised in Taiwan, I Actually Appreciate How Americans Judge Parents
When my four-year-old had a meltdown and the police showed up at my door, I didn’t feel ashamed—I felt safe. Born and raised in Taiwan, I knew what it was like to cry for help and have no one come. But in America, someone knocked. That night reminded me why I appreciate how American society isn’t afraid to judge parents—and how that judgment can protect children.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 24, 20194 min read
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It Took Me Thirteen Years To Go Home
After 13 years away, I returned home for Lunar New Year with my child, seeking reconciliation with my parents and healing old wounds.

To-wen Tseng
Jan 31, 20174 min read
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